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You've been through countless breakups and heartaches.

It's time to find your true love.

No matter whether you’re dating or struggling in a relationship that doesn't go anywhere, creating the deep connection that enables you to create a strong and fulfilled relationship has one secret at its core: True Compatibility.

The problem: Compatibility is not at all what the media and common sense make you think it is.

The quiz will show

  • why True Compatibility is the key to fulfilled relationships, no matter whether you’re dating or have been together as a couple for years
  • how you have so much more power over the success of your relationship than you ever thought
  • what you can do NOW to create a happy long-term relationship.

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

You've been in your relationship for a long time, and possibly too long. It's too painful to keep going as is, but you don't know what to do.

Get the tools, information, inspiration, and support to make a confident and responsible decision that is right for you (and your family). Then, create a custom step-by-step plan to move forward in the direction you chose. No pressure, all support.

My relationship was destined to fail from the beginning...

Dr. Karin Sternberg

…but I did not see it at the time. Or maybe I did not want to see it.

The relationship was not working out but it also wasn’t bad enough for me to end things once and for all.

I ended up wasting several years of my life on a relationship that left me dispirited and despondent.

Fast forward to today, and I am very happily married to the love of my life. I never have to put my own interests first because I know he takes care of me. He loves and supports me, no matter what. I can totally be myself in our relationship, and I know that I will always be respected, no matter whether I make mistakes or we disagree. We love spending time together and have three adorable children.

I went through all these painful experiences, but at least I had a happy ending.

You can have that happy ending, too.

But YOU don’t have to spend years of your life in relationships that don’t really work and leave you picking up the pieces of your life (and your shattered heart).

I am Dr. Karin Sternberg, a cognitive and personality psychologist with a passion for translating research into practice.

When it comes to finding your true love and creating fulfilled and lasting relationships, the key to your success is True Compatibility.

But if you rely on the well-meant opinions of others or common knowledge about compatibility, you're not going to get far.

Together with my husband, Dr. Robert Sternberg, I've been researching and writing about compatibility for many years. Here's the upshot:

True Compatibility isn't what you think it is.

Our research findings on compatibility, which have been shown to be valid in 25 countries all around the world, have convinced me that:

Given the right tools, ANYONE can create fulfilling relationships, no matter your history or experiences.

We're not giving you another well-meant opinion. You deserve better.

Dr. Karin Sternberg is a social/personality psychologist and author, wife of Bob Sternberg, and mother of their triplets. She has a BA with a specialization in clinical psychology as well as a PhD in psychology from the University of Heidelberg in Germany.

Karin teaches at Cornell (most recently, child development), and is writing a child development textbook that will be published in 2023. She has written as well as co-edited a number of books on love and hate as well as other topics.

Dr. Bob Sternberg is a professor of psychology at Cornell University and honorary professor of psychology at the University of Heidelberg, Germany.

Bob's BA is from Yale University, Phi Beta Kappa, summa cum laude, and his PhD is from Stanford University. Bob also has 13 honorary doctorates from universities around the world.

Bob has developed his own theory of love and compatibility which as been shown to work in 25 countries across the world. His work has been cited thousands of times in the scientific and popular literature.

Bob holds the Number 1 lifetime ranking in Human Development and Family studies among all scholars worldwide, and the Number 7 lifetime ranking in love and relationship research among all scholars .

Our research-based True Compatibility Method...

...helps you find your true love by

  • developing a clear vision of yourself and your deepest desires, needs, and dreams, while
  • identifying and changing dysfunctional relationship patterns that have shaped your life and relationships, and
  • identifying potential promising partners quickly, confidently, and with ease

...saves you from

  • countless heartaches and breakups,
  • blaming yourself, and
  • feeling like you need to fix yourself.

... is based on Bob Sternberg's theory of love, which

  • has been shown to work in 25 countries across the world by us as well as other researchers, and
  • is actively used in international research.

What if there’s nothing wrong with you and you were just searching in all the wrong places?

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  • True Compatibility courses, as well as
  • tips, advice and fun exercises to help you find your true love and create that happy relationship that lasts a lifetime.

Get started on your journey to True Compatibility

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